It all started when God gave his only son, Jesus. God gave. He gave to us the most incredible, wonderful, unmistakably heart-felt gift in all the world. It costs him so much, and costs us nothing. When I think on that, really think about it, it makes Christmas a little sweeter, and not so materialistic. However we have to accept the fact that we do buy gifts, and there lies a big stressor. My gift to you, dear reader, are some suggestions of how and what to buy and maybe, just maybe, lessen your stress and put a smile on your face.
First of all, remember that it's about showing your love. A gift should say, I thought about you, I remember you and care for you. When you struggle with what to get someone, especially that "hard to buy for person" or "the person who has everything" put a little thought into it. Gift giving should be about nothing if it isn't about love. Giving is a tangible way to show someone you care. So first of all, think about the person. What's their favorite hobby? Favorite color? Are they a sports nut, health nut, of maybe just a nut? smile The point is, to think. Think about the person.
Let me be a little more specific. It doesn't have to cost a lot. What are you good at? What's your hobby or talent? Share it with others. I have a friend who paints beautifully. A hand painted flowerpot is one of my most beloved gifts. Maybe you're a good cook. If so, bake a cake and deliver it a few days before Christmas. Believe me, that is a SWEET gift that many people would love! Do you know a single mother? What she needs is a break! Offer to baby-sit while she goes shopping, and throw in a few bucks for dinner. Or maybe she could use a gift certificate for an oil change, or something just for her, something she would never buy for herself. What about the school teacher in your life that patiently teaches that little hard-headed kid of yours - how about a Gift Certificate to Books- A- Million or Target? Teachers spend hundreds of their own dollars just buying things for the classroom these days. What about your pastor or spiritual leader? I seriously doubt that they really need another bible - but hey, a nice new tie might actually really be appreciated. If they're not a "tie" kind of guy (or gal) what about a nice card with some heartfelt words about how much you appreciate their efforts. We all need to hear that - and they certainly do. It may be just the thing to encourage him or her. Tuck in a gift certificate for dinner, and now we're talking! Are you getting the picture yet?
I actually have a friend whose husband has written a book. It’s a good book too - funny, sad, thoughtful, and full of wisdom. I plan on buying a few extra copies and giving it to some of my family members and friends who enjoy reading. If you need me to give you specifics, I’ll be happy to share! Just let me know.
Now that I think about it, some kind words of encouragement, tucked in a Christmas card will cost you almost nothing and may be the very best thing you can give. Oh yeah, please don’t forget to give to those less fortunate this season. Many are without a job; you won’t have to look too far. Giving should make you feel good. I promise if you just put a little thought into it – you’ll be coming up with great ideas all on your own!
Giving is my thing. It makes me happy. I get it from my mama. Giving should make you happy too. The bible says, in Matthew, Chapter 7, “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” When I read this I am reminded of how much I love to give to my children, my girls. This verse is saying that if I, a sinner (saved by grace), wants to give and finds pleasure in giving, how much more must God love us and love to give to us. God gave. He continues to give. May you find joy and a little piece of Christmas magic this year as you give until your heart is content.
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